Writers 
Good day everyone,
I know how it feels. You are doing everything you can. You are studying hard, you are praying, you are working, you are trying to be a good person. But sometimes it feels like no one sees you. No one is helping you. You look left and right and it seems like other people have people helping them, but you are alone. If that is how you feel today, I have good news for you: YOUR HELPER WILL FIND YOU.
In this life, nobody makes it alone. No matter how smart you are, no matter how strong you are, you need a helper. A helper is that person that God sends into your life to take you from where you are to where you are supposed to be. Sometimes your helper is a teacher who believes in you when others don't. Sometimes it is a stranger who gives you information that changes your life. Sometimes it is a friend who shares an opportunity with you. Sometimes it is someone who just mentions your name in a room where your future is being discussed.
But here is what you must understand: Helpers don't just find anyone. Helpers find people who are ready.
Number One: Helpers Find People Who Are Working, Not Just Wishing.
A lot of us are just wishing. We want someone to come and help us, but we are doing nothing. Listen, your helper will not find you inside laziness. Your helper will find you on the road of work. The farmer who is already on the farm is the one someone will come to help. The student who is already reading is the one a teacher will notice. The young man who is already learning a skill is the one someone will connect to a job. Don't just sit and say "nobody is helping me." Get up and start. Start that small business. Start learning that skill. Start writing that proposal. As you move, your helper will see you and locate you. The Bible says, God helps those who are already doing something with their hands.
Number Two: Your Character Will Keep Your Helper.
Many people pray for a helper, but their character chases helpers away. You get a helper today, you lie to them tomorrow. You get a helper, you are proud, you are ungrateful, you gossip about them. Hear me: Your gift can bring a helper to you, but only your character can keep the helper. Be faithful in little things. Be respectful. Be grateful. When someone helps you with small, say thank you like they gave you a million. When you show that you are loyal and honest with small help, people will trust you with bigger help. Your helper is watching how you behave when no one is watching.
Number Three: Don't Be Afraid to Ask and to Speak Up.
Some of us are too shy to speak. We have needs, we have talents, but we keep quiet. Your helper cannot find you if you hide yourself. Learn to speak up with confidence and humility. Tell people what you do. Tell people what you are learning. Share your work online. Go for that program. Attend that seminar. Volunteer. Many helpers found people not in their houses, but in places where value was being shared. Your voice is a location tracker for your helper. If you keep hiding, how will they find you?
Number Four: Be A Helper To Someone Else.
This is the secret most people don't know. If you want your helper to find you, start helping someone else first. Life is a seed. What you sow, you reap. When you help someone with the little you have, you share information, you teach someone what you know, you support someone's dream, you are telling life that you are ready to be helped too. You cannot be stingy with help and expect helpers to surround you. Be the reason someone else believes that good people still exist.
Let me tell you this to close: Delay is not denial.
Maybe today you feel forgotten. Your mates are getting help, getting connections, getting admissions, getting jobs, and you feel left behind. Don't be jealous. Don't be bitter. Your own helper is on the way. Sometimes helpers delay because you are not yet mature enough to handle the help they will bring. If they come too early, you will waste the opportunity.
So while you wait, prepare. Work on yourself. Build your character. Build your skill. Clean your heart from envy. Keep doing good.
And one day, and that day will come sooner than you think , someone will call your name and say, "I have been looking for someone like you." Someone will say, "Your name was mentioned, come." Someone will say, "I don't know why, but I just want to help you."
That is your helper. And when they find you, one meeting will erase years of struggle.
So lift your head up. Stop crying that nobody is helping you. Keep moving. Keep growing. Keep believing.
Because I assure you with all my heart, YOUR HELPER WILL FIND YOU.