Three months.
Three whole months without hearing Tunde's voice.
At first, I counted every single day. I would wake up and check my phone before my eyes were fully open, half expecting a message that never came. Then one morning, I realized I had gone almost an entire afternoon without thinking about him.
It wasn't because I had stopped loving him.
It was because I had finally started choosing myself.
The first thing I did was block him.
His number.
His WhatsApp.
His Instagram.
Then his sister.
Then Bisi.
Not because I hated them.
Because I needed peace more than I needed answers.
That evening, I finally told my mum everything.
Not the edited version I'd been telling everyone else.
The truth.
The lies.
The cheating.
The shouting.
The bruise I had hidden beneath makeup.
The nights I cried myself to sleep because I kept believing he would change.
She didn't interrupt me.
She simply held my hands as tears rolled down my face.
When I finally stopped talking, she pulled me into a hug and whispered, "You're not the first woman to survive heartbreak, and you won't be the last. But you will survive this too."
Those words stayed with me.
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