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Where on earth did you learn that? How many parents have asked that question, horrified at something their child has said or done that seems completely out of character? And how often does the answer involve some new friends at school or in the neighborhood? Yes, companions affect us profoundly, whether we are young or old. The apostle Paul warned: "Do not be misled. Bad company corrupts good habits. " (Proverbs 13:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33).
Peer pressure is particularly vulnerable to young individuals. They frequently experience a desire to appease and impress their coworkers, and they may occasionally feel overwhelmed by it. They often lack confidence in themselves. Then, how important it is that the youngsters pick good companions!
Kids won't always make the right decisions; they need some direction, as every parent is aware. It is not about choosing their pals for them. Instead, as they develop, teach them discretion and help them to understand what characteristics they should appreciate in friends.
The main attribute is a passion for Jehovah and for performing
Why is it important for spiritual kids to choose friends wisely?
What advice can parents offer their kids while selecting friends?
SAFEGUARD YOUR FAMILY FROM DAMAGING INFLUENCES
What he believes to be good. (Mark 12:28-30)
They should be taught to appreciate and love those who are honest, kind, charitable, and hardworking. Help children identify such traits in Bible characters during the family study and then identify the same traits in other members of the congregation. Use the same criteria to choose your own friends in order to set an example.
Do you know who your kids' friends are? Why not let your children bring them home so that you can meet them? What other kids think about these friends may also be asked of your children. Are they well known for living a double life or for showing personal integrity? If the latter is correct, assist your children in determining why such a link might be detrimental to them. (Psalm 26:4, 5, 9–12) If you observe any negative alterations in your child's attire, attitude, speech, or conduct, you might need to speak to them about their pals.
You may find that your child is spending time with a buddy who is having a negative influence on him. Compare Genesis 34:1, 2.
However, it is insufficient to teach your children to stay away from bad friends. Help them locate decent ones. A father states: "We would constantly attempt to make a substitution. So when the school requested our kid to play football, my wife and I sat down with him and explained why it wouldn't be a good idea because of the new friends who would be involved. However, we then proposed bringing some of the other children in the church to the park to play ball with them. And it worked out wonderfully."
How can parents monitor who their children choose as friends? What practical assistance may parents provide in addition to cautioning against harmful company?
FAMILY JOY
Paul and Mercy, devout Christians, occasionally hold meetings at their house. They ensure that the meetings are a manageable size and are closely watched. They have good cause to believe that their kids profit.
Mercy recounts, "The mother of one of Eric's classmates my six year old kid approached me and told me that she felt bad for Eric since he wouldn't participate in school birthday parties and would sit apart. I told her, "I really appreciate that you care so much about my son. It says a lot about your personality. And I'm sure I can't say anything that would persuade you that Eric doesn't believe he's losing out." She consented. So I said, 'Then, for your own sake, put your mind at ease and ask Eric yourself how he feels.' 'Don't you mind missing out on these nice birthday parties?' she asked Eric when I wasn't around. He looked up at her in surprise and said, "Do you think that ten minutes, a few cupcakes, and a song make a party?" You should come to my house and see what a real party is like! The boy's innocent enthusiasm made it clear that he did not feel deprived or missing out!
Good parents assist their children in making healthy friendships and engaging in positive pastimes with them. However, for many parents, this issue of fun poses its own difficulties.