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Where could you have possibly acquired such knowledge? How many mothers and fathers have asked this when shocked by something their child has expressed or acted upon that seems completely out of character? And how often does the answer point to new friends at school or within the community? Undoubtedly, peers exert a significant influence on us, regardless of age. The apostle Paul warned, "Do not be deceived. Bad company spoils good morals." (Proverbs 13:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33).
Young people are particularly vulnerable to the pressures of their peers. They often feel an urge to win approval and impress those around them, and sometimes, this pressure can feel overwhelming. They frequently lack confidence. Therefore, it is essential for the youth to choose positive companions!
Children do not always make sound choices; they need guidance, as all parents understand. This does not imply deciding their friends for them. Instead, as they grow older, educate them in discernment and assist them in recognizing which traits to appreciate in friends.
The primary characteristic is a passion for Jehovah and for engaging in what He deems right. (Mark 12:28-30)
They should learn to cherish and appreciate qualities such as honesty, kindness, generosity, and hard work. Assist children in identifying these traits in Bible characters during family discussions, then point out the same traits in fellow congregation members. Use the same standards when selecting your own friends to serve as a good example.
Do you know who your children's friends are? Why not encourage your children to invite them over so you can get acquainted? You might also inquire what other kids think about these friends. Are they recognized for living a double life or for showing personal integrity? If it’s the latter, guide your children in understanding the potential risks of such friendships. (Psalm 26:4, 5, 9-12) If you notice any concerning changes in your child's clothing, attitude, language, or behavior, it might be necessary to talk to them about their friends.
You could realize that your child is associating with someone who is having a negative impact on them. Refer to Genesis 34:1, 2.
However, merely teaching your children to steer clear of bad friends isn’t enough. Assist them in finding good ones. One father shares, "We always sought to make a change. When our son was asked by the school to join a football team, my wife and I discussed with him why it wouldn't be wise due to the new friends involved. After that, we suggested inviting some kids from the congregation to the park to play ball together. It turned out wonderfully."
In what ways can parents oversee the friendships their children select? What tangible support can parents offer beyond cautioning against negative influences?
FAMILY HAPPINESS
Paul and Mercy, committed Christians, occasionally host gatherings in their home. They make sure the gatherings are reasonably sized and well-supervised. They have solid reasons to believe that their children gain valuable benefits from this.
Mercy shares, "A mother of one of Eric's classmates—my son who is six—came to me expressing her concern regarding Eric since he tends to stay out of school birthday celebrations and sits alone. I responded, 'I genuinely appreciate your concern for my son; it reflects positively on your character. I am certain that nothing I say can change your perception that Eric feels he is missing out.' She concurred. I then mentioned, 'For your peace of mind, why not ask Eric directly about his feelings?' While I was absent, she inquired of Eric, 'Don’t you feel sad about missing these enjoyable birthday parties?' He looked at her with surprise and replied, 'Do you really think that ten minutes, some cupcakes, and a song constitute a party? You should come over to my place and witness what a real party involves!' The boy's simple joy clearly demonstrated that he didn’t sense any lack or deprivation!"
Good parents help their children build strong friendships and take part in enjoyable activities alongside them. Nonetheless, this quest for enjoyment can present challenges for numerous parents.