Writers 
I was at the hospital a week ago and I tested positive for HIV. I was shuttered, the result broke me completely because I’ve not done anything that will cause me to have HIV though there are other ways to get it aside sexual intercourse.
I didn’t even know how to tell my husband about it, so I started crying. But the doctor said it could not necessarily be from me so I should check with my husband and see.
I wanted to tell him but I decided to just find a way to go through his phone and see what he has been doing because the doctor made me suspect him so much. So I used his fingerprint to unlock his phone while he was asleep and then I went out of the house to sit somewhere and I checked the phone.
I wanted to have time to see whatever I wanted because my life was at stake and I didn’t care if he woke up to know I took his phone with me. I cried. It’s not one woman, it’s not two or three. A lot of them.
They’re so many - his entire social media (WhatsApp, Facebook and Instagram) is all full of women he’s trying to sleep with. He tells everyone a different story and the ones he’s already sleeping with are so many.
So many that I couldn’t keep track. His money goes into women so much, I never imagined he was so fuulish. The places he takes them are all expensive too.
None of that hurt me more than seeing that he already tested positive for HIV and didn’t tell me. The was a facility name saved on his phone, they sent him the results and added a password 1983 (his year of birth).
I opened it and he tested positive on 28th November, 2025. So he has known all these months but left me in the dark to suffer while he sleeps with me as if he knew nothing. He did this to me. He is a cheat and a devviI.
The things I saw on my phone made me wonder why I ever trusted him enough not to check all these years. His call came in but I didn’t answer until I returned home at 5:25am.
He got very furious but I told him all that I discovered and the pain he put me through. So yesterday I went to report at the police station and my uncle came to arrest him for deliberately infecting me with HIV, he knew so he could have told me instead of sleeping with me.
Everyone has been on me, they said I’ve taken this too far and personal but I intend making him face the law and sufffer whatever consequences. I am really hurt.
My heart aches, the past few days have been hard for me. I hope I’m doing the right thing.
I don’t want to do this, but this man went too far. Sleeping with numerous ladies, some young, old, beautiful and uglly.
He has no taste. I feel he should go to prison if he must.
His family are really bitter at this point, but I’ve told my uncle to keep him, and my elderly brother is a lawyer. I want to make him pay. Our kids will hate me, but does it matter?