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THE DANGER OF PRIDE
Proverbs 11 highlights both pride and humility, noting that humility serves as the remedy for pride: "When pride arises, disgrace follows; however, wisdom is found with humility.” Proverbs 16:18 informs us that pride leads to destruction, and Proverbs 13:10 indicates that conflict cannot occur without pride. If we could remove pride from our existence, arguments and conflicts would cease, granting us a great deal of tranquility. Individuals often seek validation in their correctness, and their pride prompts them to create discord in efforts to establish their point of view. A man I know openly acknowledged his struggle with pride; whenever he faced a disagreement, he would engage in arguments and create tension. Eventually, he remarked, “Being right is vastly overrated!” He understood that the conflict it generated was not worth the fleeting satisfaction of believing he was correct.
Once, Dave and I went to find a picture for our home’s wall. He discovered one he adored, but I was not fond of it at all. My immediate reaction was anger, leading me to argue with him. In an irritated voice, he finally suggested, “Just choose what you want.” After we finished our purchase, I walked through the mall feeling rather pleased with myself for getting my choice. However, a thought touched my heart, saying, “You might think you triumphed, but in reality, you suffered a loss.” I soon realized that the attitude I exhibited to achieve my goal was not righteous and would not please Him.
What would have been the better approach in that moment? Since it was unfair for either of us to settle for a picture we disliked, Dave and I could have continued searching until we found an option that suited us both. Most importantly, I should have communicated my disapproval in a kind and respectful way rather than how I reacted.
Pride is a negative mindset that often drives our undesirable responses to others and various situations. Our self-esteem compels us to insist on our desires and to be perpetually right, but such an approach undermines healthy relationships. The scriptures instruct us to humble ourselves under God's powerful hand, assuring us that, in time, He will lift us up (1 Peter 5:6).
Pride originates in our thoughts. We tend to hold ourselves in higher regard than we should; however, we ought to view ourselves “with sound judgment,” acknowledging that we are not infallible and that others’ perspectives hold significance (Romans 12:3). It is only the foolish person who disregards and neglects to consider viewpoints different from his own (Proverbs 12:15).
Proud and arrogant thoughts can establish themselves within us, creating vulnerabilities where adversaries can infiltrate our minds and exert their influence over our thinking. The scriptures serve as a powerful tool for dismantling these mental strongholds and liberating ourselves from them, as mentioned in 2 Corinthians 10:4. Being arrogant or conceited involves indulging in self-importance or elevating oneself or taking pride in one’s own accomplishments. It is important to observe how prominently the term "self" appears when discussing arrogance or pride. We must acknowledge that any good deeds we perform are reflections of God's grace and goodness in our lives. He bestows gifts and talents upon individuals, and while we may not possess identical abilities, each of us has valuable gifts that merit equal respect.
Are you prepared to consider the possibility that you might be mistaken, even if you feel certain that you are correct?
Boasting is an expression of pride, and it reflects the act of deception, pretending to be what one is not. This stems from an arrogant mindset. Individuals who are proud and boastful often believe they possess knowledge they do not actually have, and they perceive themselves as more significant than they truly are.
GOD RESISTS THE PROUD
God provides us with grace to fulfill His intentions, yet this grace is only accessed when we depend on Him. Those who are proud and seek self-sufficiency do not benefit from God's grace; instead, they labor under their own strength. In the book of James, it is stated that God "gives us more grace" and "resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble" (James 4:6). This means that God stands against those who are proud. Our human nature desires recognition for our good deeds, yet God will not share His glory with anyone (Isaiah 42:8).
Self-reliant and independent boastful individuals must experience humbling before God can effectively use them. This journey is often lengthy and difficult. The narrative in Daniel 4:29–37 illustrates this through the experience of King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon. Initially, he attributed his achievements to God, but soon he erected a statue in his honor and proclaimed that he was responsible for all the admirable deeds that people celebrated. Consequently, he lost his kingdom and was “driven away from men and began to eat grass like cattle. His body became soaked with the dew from heaven until his hair was like the feathers of an eagle and his nails like the claws of a bird” (Daniel 4:33). In essence, he lived in the fields like a lunatic. Eventually, he regained his senses, praised God, and gave Him the honor He deserved. God restored his kingdom and reinstated his former authority while granting him even greater prominence (Daniel 4:34–36). Nebuchadnezzar extolled and revered the Sovereign of heaven, stating, “All His actions are just, and His ways are right. And those who are proud, He is capable of humbling” (Daniel 4:37).